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Wednesday, February 15, 2012

nothing much to write about V day. make it something secret between me and my man. hahha. xp

chinese new year had over, valentine's day had past too.
what's waiting ahead? 
my Malaysian University English Test ( MUET )
OMG! Im getting a little nervous today when the teacher explained the flow of the exam day and all the details.
will I be able to score with band 4? I dunwan to retake the test, it cost me RM101. =.=
gimme a band 5 and I will be mad happy! 
yes! BAND 5 but band 4 also pretty okay already la. 


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Friday, January 27, 2012


Happy chinese new year! Huat ah! ^^
The dragon come too fast to kick the rabbit away. Its another new year again, for chinese.
For this cny, everything is in a rush.
Yet i feel lucky to have this cny break so soon.  A small break from the super tight school-days-schedule.
Everything went too fast and too complex since 1st of january. Hopefully after this lunar new year, everything will go smooth and in an acceptable speed. :D
The feng shui said this year is a good year for those who born in the rooster's year (me! ). Wish that its not nonsence, i seriously believe that those are true. XD really need lots of luck and good fortune for 2012. Its a tough year after all.

新年快来 恭喜发财 龙年行大运

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Monday, January 16, 2012



尊嚴    作者:李家同

老楊是我們銀行裡的首席分析師。

在總經理要做重大決定以前,老楊一定要給總經理作一個相當徹底的分析。

分析永遠在於這個決定的得和失。

所謂得,當然是可能的得,所謂失,也當然是可能的失。

老楊在分析的時候,會用很多數學,可是他在做報告的時候,卻不會強調數學,而用非常直觀的方法來解釋他的分析。

為什麼他的分析一直受到重視,主要的原因在於他的資料非常正確而完整。

如果我們要在某個地點設立分行,老楊一定會知道這個地區居民的收入、職業等等。

我們有時會奇怪老楊如何能在如此短的時間裡得到資料,據他說,他其實是用抽樣調查的方法。

據我所知,他的統計學學得非常好,這使得他的資料得以非常完整。

因為老楊常常要收集資料,他養成了隨時隨地觀察的習慣。

有一次,我們在一家百貨公司一樓的咖啡館喝咖啡,一個小時下來,他告訴了我這百貨公司情況不妙,因為提袋率太低了。

果真不久,這家百貨公司傳出了財務危機的消息。

更有一次,我們一齊到國外出公差,他又表演了一手,他猜那個城市的收入是多少,事後查證,他的確猜得很準。

據他說,他是看街上汽車的牌子以後估算出來的。老楊一直是一個很快樂的人,這也很自然。

他的工作得心應手,薪水非常高,他從來沒有感到什麼壓力,因為他僅僅負責分析而已。

最後決策的決定總是別人做的。何況他的分析向來非常有用。

前一陣子,老楊忽然顯得有點心情不好。他過去很喜歡講笑話,現在比較少講了。

有人和他聊天,他也會發呆,好像沒有聽到妳在講什麼。

有一天我到他的辦公室去找他,談完公事以後,忽然發現他的牆上掛了一個鏡框,框內衹有一張白紙,紙上寫了阿拉伯字的68,這個數字代表什麼呢?我當時百思不得其解。

老楊看出了我的困惑,他立刻叫我不要離開,他要解釋給我聽是怎麼一回事。

他說前些日子,他到印度去出差。住在一家旅館裡,他住的房間有落地玻璃窗,可以看到街景,他注意到對街有一個小乞丐,來來回回地向行人求乞。

他的老毛病又犯了,他開始計算平均這個小乞丐在經過多少次求乞以後,可以得到一次反應,因為絕大多數的路人是不理會他的,一個小時以後,他得到了答案,這個小乞丐平均要乞討68次以後,才有一次成功(因為過路人也窮)。

老楊得到了這個答案,心中難過至極。因為他這一下可以完完全全地瞭解做小乞丐的滋味了。

他想,如果我每次求職,要寫68封求職信,才會有一封回應,已經非常沮喪了,這位小乞丐卻終其一生,都要在街上向人乞討。

老楊想,這種生活,他一天都受不了,如果要過幾十年如此沒有尊嚴的生活,他是無法想像的。

老楊當天晚上睡不著覺,他想起有人用數羊來使自己入眠,因此他就數起羊來,可是他每次數到68,就數不下去了。

68忽然變成了一個永遠不能到達的境界。

他從頭再來,依然到不了68。所以老楊在床上醒了好久,才能入睡。

老楊的經驗使他覺得人人都應當在平時就假設自己是一個小乞丐,因為唯有這樣才能體會到乞丐沒有尊嚴的痛苦。

他的兒子才參加『飢餓三十』回來。老楊卻告訴他,他應該虛擬實境,假設自己是一個乞丐。

他的兒子試了一次,發現做乞丐的痛苦並不在於感到飢餓,而是感到個人毫無尊嚴可言。

老楊已經不能去豪華飯店吃飯了。對於任何奢侈的東西,他都失去了興趣。

他常常去一家專門照顧窮苦老人的單位做義工,有人曾經看到過他做義工的情形。

有一位同事說他從未看過這種態度的義工,我問他是怎麼一種態度,他想了半天,最後結結巴巴地說,老楊不是普通地在做義工服務而已,他是在侍奉。

我懂得這是因為老楊知道窮人最需要的不是麵包而已,而是尊嚴。

老楊當義工時的態度,無非是要使窮人感到尊嚴。

自從老楊開始侍奉窮人以後,他自掏腰包改善了很多設備。

老人吃飯的碗換成了比較好看的磁碗,是淡藍色的,茶具也換了。最使老人感到高興的是新的床單和被套。


我們通常會說我們應該同情窮人,要對窮人有慈悲心。

老楊顯然在告訴我們,我們該尊敬窮人,因為他們最缺乏的就是別人對他的尊敬。

這種想法,來自一個數字:68。

老楊常常強調數據的重要性,他是對的,因為這個數字改變了他的一生。



編者:

李教授的文章向來見解獨特,這一回依然如此,一個簡單的數字「68」,竟然能衍生出一番人生哲理,文中讓我有一種覺醒。

過去一直將慈善事視為一種同情的心在看待,然受接濟的人的尊嚴呢?卻沒有一同並入腦海裡一起付諸實踐,總以為幫助別人是該作的,對方也必然會欣喜與感恩;但那份尊嚴是否有可能在我們沒有加以正視下,不知不覺地傷害被幫助的人呢?

助人在於心,尤其那份確確真誠的心實為重要,將心比心哪怕衹是微薄的扶助,對方必能感受到溫暖。

尊重及是接受他人為一個完整而獨立的個體,擁有自己的感受與經驗
尊重是雙方站在同樣的高度溝通。 



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Sunday, January 15, 2012

 

from the above picture, can u guess what it is? 
hmph. from the first look, i thought it is just a normal camera.
but actually, its a POLAROID CAMERA.
yes. polaroid.

what's so special about this polaroid that makes me wanna own it?
usually when we take photos with polaroid we are so nervous that if we din posed prefectly, the photo printed out will like ruin and GONE. ish. the instant film is EX leh!
BUT !
this polaroid actually has a LCD screen and you CAN PREVIEW YOUR PHOTO BEFORE YOU DECIDED TO PRINT IT OUT.
cool right? hah!  

i actually read about this polaroid camera on one of my fave blogger, from taiwan. 
then from there, i linked to Yahoo! and found more info about this camera. 
too bad i cannot read korean, if not i can read all the detail specs of this camera. =(
to Yahoo!




on the page, its show that the price of this polaroid camera is 9200元 (Taiwan new dollar) so i go for a currency converter.
OOPS!




not included the instant film and the postage all the way from Taiwan to Malaysia.

*cry die*




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Saturday, January 7, 2012


life is full of tolerance. sometimes, we should think in other's perspective, not just think of your own.
i happened to found that, sometimes, your toleration would make other think that he/she has all the rights. that's awful, very.

to maintain a lasting relationship, tolerance plays a big role. so do loyalty and honesty. 
but now my point of view would stick to loyalty, because this is a MUET speaking practice. and that's my task as a candidate B. 
so i'm trying to confess my ideas over here. =D
i secretly found out the obstacles of speaking *typing* the real feeling over here is lesser than in communication or papers. haha

today, my topic is about friendship. friendship is one of the important essential in our life. we all have friends. yet we know it is hard to maintain a long lasting friendship. somehow, i think that loyalty is the most important quality to do so.
to be loyal to a friend, there must be the presence of faithfulness. as a friend, you should always be there when your friend needs you. always give your mental, physical and spiritual support selfish-less to your friend. that will helps in maintaining a lasting friendship. Share your ideas and feelings sincerely with your friend. there musn't be a wall that can hide something behind in a relationship.
another way of showing your loyalty is no betrayal. betrayal is the worst as it could destroy all the linking in a relationship. as trust is a very important essential between humans, betrayal is the thing that can kill it. so, dun back-stab your friend or be a double-face person. warning! try not to do so to a friend, unless you are willing to put a bad ending to that relationship.
in conclusion, loyalty is the most important quality to maintain a long lasting friendship. to be loyal, we need to stay faithful and dun betray.
thank you.

PS : that's obviously not enough for a 2 minutes presentation. oops!


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Thursday, January 5, 2012


i doesn't have good time for these first two school reopen days. a lot shocking information are throwing towards me.
originally i thought this 2012 will be only studies and STPM. but there's more behind.
as a 18++ years old youth [ 86 days to be officially 19. oops! ] , i feel like i'm being threaten like primary students in school.

i'm very curious about how the other students in penang-most-famous-super-strict school survived from those ridiculous limits and unfair rules.
izzit setting more limits and having more controls over the students are the last way you can think to increase the school disciplinary status?
i can understand that the school are doing what they think will bring benefits to us, they want us to stay 100% focus on studies. but PLEASE NOT TOO MUCH. 
we are just like air. no matter how much force you apply to compress us, there's still a limit. we still have our original volume and mass, we won't change. and we MAY rebounce.

this is a different generation now. old rules will not work anymore. but reinforcement of old rules and make it looks like new rules will not work also. there may have some good effects on the beginning, but there will have negative impacts coming soon.

believe or not, the disciplinary status will not be better at all.
*yes, i'm cursing it to be worst. after all, its my last year and this time i really dun have ANY chances to go back to that school as a student and let them rule after 2012.


luckily i met these pretty ladies to accompany me for this tough year in school. 
sometimes, i feel that i got very less friends, but luckily these friends are very close to me. that's the thing that i appreciate. 
and i appreciate the stable relationship i'm having now.
maybe i dun have what you proud of, but i'm proud of what i have now. =)

wishes for the day : hope the coming days i will get used to the wake-up-super-early and climb-many-flights-of-stairs daily routine. and please, my dear textbook, dun speak alien language to me, i will ended up very sleepy and lost my patience.


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